Subject: apt.

From: "Johns Gregory" <[email-masked]>
Date: Mon, 4 Dec 2006 16:02:38 +0900

He is a humble person, but I feel a wall now between us so thick I have no clue how to tear it down. Do I stop seeing my son unless he at least comes over to pick me up and at least speaks to her? She developed feelings for him and with the help of a counseling friend we were able to work through these issues, or so I thought.
This helps to be able to work towards any personal healing that may be needed and on changing those behaviors.
So I told him this was either going to make it or not, but that he had to go. It sounds like he is dealing with some residual pain and anger as a result of you and his mother splitting up.
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And, you probably know by now that if your husband does not want to go to counseling you can't force him. She developed feelings for him and with the help of a counseling friend we were able to work through these issues, or so I thought. Well, maybe you should try something.
I'm highly thinking about using your online services too.
I don't think you need to be ashamed at all for staying with your husband, and your feelings of distrust and fear are all very normal.
But, unfortunately we all have to live the consequences of our choices whether pleasant or painful at times.
Online counseling can work well for the individual component of the therapy. When she revealed this to me we stayed up all night praying and seemingly worked things out. And I think it's very positive that you shared the incident with your friends and families and did not cover things up. If he isn't willing to make such necessary changes you both would be wise to seriously reconsider the marriage issue.
Others report the same gains, but also add that the pain of the past sometimes comes up once in awhile and they need to revisit the grieving-healing process at times.
As for insurance coverage information, you would have to check with your insurance carrier as all insurance companies handle that differently. She was feeling personally frustrated with me and got involved with another man, although nothing physical happened and he lives out of state.
I also think you should be able to share your feelings honestly with him about how hurt you are and try to build on that in a positive way.
If you can't afford individual therapy for your husband, at a minimum I encourage you to seek out support for both of you where you can. I guess I am just completely lost right now. He sounds very classically alcoholic himself though you and he may refer to it as a 'drinking problem. A few months ago my wife and I ran into some major problems. And, if a person can recognize and accept the healing process as a life journey there is much more serenity and peace found along the way.
It sounds like he is dealing with some residual pain and anger as a result of you and his mother splitting up.